What ever your reason to spice up your sex life (and by the way, you really don’t need a “reason” to get a sex toy.
As a matter of fact, get three: one that you know you will like, one that is highly rated but you don’t exactly know how it will work, and one that is dancing the line of intriguing/intimidating.
Because sex toys intensify pleasure. They are also fun! Hence the word “toy.” They give you new opportunities to play, explore, and enjoy both yourself and your partner. They get you out of your normal routine and can transform your average pump and grind into a playground of fun or, as John Mayer said – “your body is a wonderland.”
So start exploring and playing with it! Sex toys can also help you both climax faster, harder, and deeper. And here’s the thing about sex toys: if you try one and it wasn’t right for you, you can never try it again if you don’t want to. Even those experience, when you as a couple try something new and share an exploitative experience together, even if it’s a fail it can being you closer and make you feel more connected.
Because shared new experiences are an essential ingredient to deepening and strengthening relationships- as long as you are both open to being open, vulnerable, and playful.
Plus, you just might feel more aroused than you could have even imagined.